I’ve gradually learned thankfulness over the years. It didn’t come naturally. For 18 years, my Mom taught me manners, but often I said “thank you” from compulsion and expectation, not conviction or true appreciation. I knew it was polite, and wanted to be polite, but often I thought that person owed me something, so the thank you was to make me look good.
Afterall, why thank Mom for making dinner? She’s the mom, isn’t it her job to make dinner?
Then I became a mother.
Why thank someone for a service? They’re getting paid to do it, right?
Then I started working as a busboy.
Over and over in life I realized I failed in thanking others. The biggest conviction came when I studied the Word of God. Word studies on “give thanks” and “thanksgiving” gave me a deeper desire to improve. The basis of a thankful heart comes from thanking the Lord for our salvation. Daily we should marvel that the Holy One who knew no sin became sin for us. How can our hearts not be thankful?
When I learned to notice and appreciate the cost of what I received, financial, effort or time, it increased my thankfulness.
I learned to watch the examples of others as they ministered to others. One thing I learned was giving little gifts of thanks. You don’t need to empty the bank account, pour out from the heart and hands. In other words, my gifts are simple and inexpensive.
It never occurred to me until I saw others bringing them, but this year I planned and conquered teachers’ gifts. You might be thinking I’m pulling a fast one since I homeschool – making my kids give me presents. They’re for the teachers who instruct my adorable, smart, house-trained kids in a homeschool co-op.
Succulents grow well in our climate and add color to the garden all year ’round. When the skies are gray for months and months, these babies are always green. They’re a comfort plant for me, since My mom usually had hen and chicks in her gardens. This was a $.99 vase from Value Village.
These little terra cotta beauties were in my craft room because I found a box of them at a thrift store for $1.99. Who can pass up a bargain like that? I bought the saucers for our Resurrection craft this spring. I like to plant them into little odd corners between rocks where I don’t want to weed.
This green and yellow plant grows prolifically and brings great color into the fall. I can’t remember what it’s called and the little plastic identification tag disintegrated years ago. Another $.99 pot I knew would perfectly compliment the plant with no name.
It was supposed to be a quick 5-minute job making the Thank You Flowers. Afterall, I still had flower scraps leftover from the Graduation decor I crafted last May with my Cuttlebug. Some were used some to make the Multiplaction Flower Power Manipulative, but there were still shapes longing to be crafted into usefulness.
I couldn’t find my glue gun. I couldn’t find my 1-inch circle punch. Afater a half hour of hufingf and puffing, my way of expressing frustration, I found everything and glued them together.
DONE! As long as they survive the car ride in commuter traffic, we should be good to go!
While junkin’, my mom’s term for hitting the garage sales and thrift stores, I also look for mugs with Bible verses and vintage baby planters. I also love unusual items, like old tea kettles and coffee pots.
My gifts of thanksgiving were almost free, but they express my heart. I’m always thankful when someone invests in my children. I want the teachers to know that. A thankful heart overflows in word or deed.
How do you show your appreciation to others in word or deed?
I’d love to hear your ideas, I’m still learning about being thankful!
mary mac says
I realize the other day that I was not expressing my thankfulness to God like I should be. I have been giving God my top ten thankfulness list every morning when I pray. It has been wonderful!
Such a good post Mindy but then I always love your posts. I love your idea of plants for thankful gifts. I write notes to thank people. I have made fudge and put it in mason jars.
I know it is overcast and drizzly over your way. Someone I know says where we live it is the most overcast spot in the States. It is very overcast but I would think that Seattle (right?) is overcast the most of any place!! We sure have had lots of sunny days lately.
Momma Mindy says
Yes, it is overcast and rainy. In fact, so rainy that our softball game was cancelled today. That rarely happens! We don’t cancel for rain, we play in the rain, we only cancel when the fields have puddles.
This is a past post about how the lack of sunshine here and the amount of rainfall.
These are adorable! I’m learning that it is the little things like this that make a huge difference. Of course it begins with a heart of gratitude that extends out! Great post, great reminder and super idea!!