She wanted her sons in a place of prominence in the kingdom of Heaven. So, when we look at her behavior of physical worship, then look at her fleshly request, we are a little stumped. Was she truly worshipping with her heart and was just totally ignorant of what she was asking? Or, was she going through the accepted motions of worship, using false humility to try to have her petition granted? Either way, ignorance of the Lord and His purpose or using religious motions to gain favor, she was wrong.
The Lord had to respond to her by saying in verse 22, But Jesus answered and said, “You do not know what you ask.”
In the dog-training world, they use the term “kennel-blind.” It refers to the condition of an owner being so high on his own dogs, he can’t see their true faults. He can’t see his dogs aren’t holding a point and aren’t instantly obeying commands. The owners get caught up in the emotionalism of watching their dogs gracefully run through a field, trying to flush out birds, and they can’t see their faults.
This dear mother was kennel-blind. If she saw her two boys as we all should see ourselves, she would feel, as John the Baptist did, that her boys weren’t worthy of tying the Lord’s shoes. If she was honest about herself, she would have been kneeling in thanksgiving for having her sins forgiven.
But, before we are too hard on this dear mother, who obviously loved her boys and desired good things for them, let us examine ourselves. Are we asking things of the Lord that aren’t in alignment with His Word? When we feel our prayers aren’t being answered, we need to closely examine if our prayers are lining up with the heart and purpose of the Lord as revealed in His written word. And, is our worship a formality, or are we filled with true joy, love and thankfulness to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?